PKWA Law family lawyer Derek Choo was recently quoted by Channel NewsAsia (CNA) in an article examining why some unwed parents in Singapore choose to legally adopt their own biological children.

The CNA feature, published on 2 October 2026, looked at the experiences of single mothers who had considered or gone through the adoption process and the legal and practical reasons behind their decisions.

One issue highlighted in the article is an important distinction between being the biological parent of a child and the legal status accorded to a child born outside marriage under Singapore law.

Does an Unwed Parent Need to Adopt Their Own Child?

Being unmarried does not mean that a biological mother or father simply ceases to be the child’s parent.

Speaking to CNA, Derek Choo, Associate Director of the Family Law and Probate Department at PKWA Law Practice, explained:

“What changes with adoption is the child’s legal status, not the relationship itself.”

The biological parent continues to be recognised as the child’s biological parent and has parental rights and responsibilities towards the child.

However, Singapore law continues to make distinctions in certain areas between children born within marriage and children born outside marriage.

Derek told CNA:

“Singapore law still distinguishes between a child born within marriage and one born outside it, and for many unwed mothers, adopting their own child is the clearest way to close that gap.”

Why Would a Biological Parent Adopt Their Own Child?

Although the idea of adopting one’s own biological child may initially appear unusual, there can be important legal and practical reasons for doing so.

The CNA report highlighted issues including inheritance, housing and tax relief, as well as questions surrounding the continuing legal rights of the other biological parent.

For example, inheritance can be an important consideration for some families. The legal position where someone dies without a Will may differ depending on the child’s legal status and the surviving family members.

A properly prepared Will may therefore also form an important part of estate planning for an unmarried parent.

What Does the Adoption Process Involve?

A biological parent seeking to adopt his or her own child may still have to go through the formal adoption process.

As outlined in the CNA report, core pre-adoption requirements can include:

  • attending a mandatory briefing;
  • completing an Adoption Suitability Assessment;
  • interviews and home visits;
  • providing supporting documents and information; and
  • making an application to court.

There can also be additional issues concerning the other biological parent.

Depending on the circumstances, consent may have to be obtained or the court may have to consider whether consent should be dispensed with. Biological fathers may also face additional legal steps, including establishing paternity and dealing with custody issues.

These requirements mean that what appears to be a straightforward adoption can involve several distinct legal and administrative stages.

Every Family’s Circumstances Are Different

Adoption is not necessarily required or appropriate for every unmarried parent.

The Ministry of Social and Family Development told CNA that unwed parents do not need to adopt their biological children simply to qualify for government benefits that are available regardless of parental marital status. Whether a parent decides to pursue adoption will therefore depend on his or her individual family circumstances and objectives.

Parents may also need to consider how adoption interacts with other issues such as custody, access, inheritance, estate planning and the rights of the other biological parent.

Obtaining legal advice at an early stage can help a parent understand the available options and the legal consequences before deciding how to proceed.

PKWA Law’s Derek Choo Quoted by CNA

Derek Choo is an Associate Director in PKWA Law’s Family Law and Probate Department.

His comments formed part of CNA’s broader examination of the experiences of unwed single parents who have considered adopting their biological children and the legal framework surrounding these applications in Singapore.

Read the full CNA article:

“I gave birth to her, so why do I have to adopt her?’: The unwed single parents adopting their own children”

If you require advice regarding adoption, child custody, guardianship or other family law matters in Singapore, speak with an experienced family lawyer about your circumstances.

The process of adoption means beginning a new legal relationship between a child and its adoptive (non-biological) parents. This may have serious consequences for all involved, and it severs the legal relationship that existed between the child and their biological parents. The adopting parents now assume all rights and responsibilities over the child.

The only legal way to do this in Singapore is through the Family Justice Courts, due to the complexity of the process. If you need advice on this subject, please contact our adoption lawyers for an initial, free of charge consultation.

The legal acts which regulate adoption in Singapore are:

  • The Family Justice Act 2014
  • The Family Justice Court Rules
  • The Adoption of Children Act 1939
  • Practice directions.

Adoption—The Legal Process

The child’s circumstances dictate which process will be used. For example, whether the child is Singaporean, a foreign child, or from the People’s Republic of China, for which there are additional requirements.

Pre-adoption briefing

The first step is to register for a meeting with the Ministry of Social and Family Development (MSF), who appoint an accredited agent to meet with prospective parents. The purpose of this mandatory pre-adoption briefing is to explain the process, the rights and responsibilities of adoptive parents, post-adoptive services, and how to talk to the child about the adoption. Anyone adopting a stepchild or relative must also go through this same process.

Home Study Report

A Home Study Report is necessary for anyone wanting to adopt a foreign child, or a child in the care of the MSF. The purpose is to verify that you are a suitable parent to adopt and raise a child. Each report is valid for one adoption and lasts two years, during which time you may find a child to adopt.

If the adopted child is a stepchild or relative, a home investigation may be ordered by the court, rather than a Home Study Report.

Finding a child to adopt

Once you have attended the briefing, and obtained the Home Study Report (if necessary), you can then begin to look for a child to adopt. You may wish to use the MSF Fostering Scheme, or alternatively you can ask family and friends to help you. However, if you wish to adopt a child from China, you cannot find the child yourself; instead, you must ask the China Centre for Children’s Welfare and Adoption (CCCWA) and they will identify a child, and notify you when the child is available.

Obtain consent from the child’s birth parents or guardians

The next step once a child has been identified is to get the notarised consent of the child’s birth parents or legal guardian. This means they give up all their duties, rights and obligations to the child, once the adoption order is given.

Where the legal guardian or birth parents do not exist, you must instead get consent from:

  • Whoever has custody of the child
  • Whoever is legally liable to support the child
  • The parents/guardians of the birth parents, in cases where the birth parents are younger than 21 years old.

In cases where none of these people can give consent, you can apply to the Family Court to remove the need for consent.

Obtain the child’s ID documents

If the child is a permanent Singapore resident, you need to get their passport and birth certificate.

Dependant’s Pass

When adopting a foreign child, you will need a Dependant’s Pass in order to bring them to Singapore. It allows the child to remain in Singapore until the completion of the adoption process. To get this pass, you need the child’s ID documents and the notarised consent mentioned above.

Sometimes the adoptive parents are required to go to the child’s home country and comply with that country’s requirements before the MSF will issue a Dependant’s Pass. But once issued, you can then apply to the Family Court to adopt.

Applying to the Family Court

When filing an adoption application, you must submit the following documents:

  • Originating Summons for Adoption
  • Adoption Statement
  • Consent to adoption and dispensation of services
  • Supporting affidavits

The Registrar, once these documents are filed, then sets a hearing date to address preliminary issues.

Guardian-in-Adoption (GIA)

A temporary legal guardian will be appointed by the court at the first hearing, to look after the child’s interests in court, as set out in section 10(3) of the Adoption of Children Act. There may also be more background checks and interviews at this stage. It is the role of the GIA to carry out home visits and do everything needed to produce a complete report for the court. The GIA must have the full co-operation and attendance of the adoptive parents throughout.

Court hearing

The court has power to summon any witness, including biological parents, to attend the hearing. The adoptive parents (or their lawyer) must also attend. The court will consider all reports and affidavits, and will have the child’s best interests and welfare as their priorities at all times.

Possible outcomes

  • A conditional order is granted: the adoption can proceed, but with specific terms and conditions attached.
  • An unconditional order is granted: the court believes it to be in the best interests of the child.
  • The proceedings are adjourned, pending further evidence.
  • An interim order is issued, which delays the granting of the final order. The adoptive parents are given temporary custody of the child for no longer than 2 years. In effect, this acts like a probationary period before a final order is given. The GIA continues to be the child’s legal guardian during the interim period.
  • The application is dismissed: the court does not think the adoption order is in the child’s best interests.

Collecting the new birth certificate

The Immigration and Checkpoints Authority (ICA) send an adopted child a new birth certificate. For children adopted from overseas, parents must apply to the ICA to obtain citizenship for the child, as it is not automatically granted in the adoption process.

Cost of adoption

It is illegal under section 11 of the Adoption of Children Act to make or receive and payment for adoption, unless the court has sanctioned it. A court may allow the following payment scenarios:

  • Payment of hospital bills or other medical fees
  • Travel costs
  • Lodging and food costs for the child and its birth mother
  • Other costs to reimburse the biological mother.

There are many fees involved in the process, such as professional agency fees, travel documents, birth certificates, admin costs and fees to notarise documents.

You must disclose any payments made during the process to the court, providing the original proof of payment. The court will only make the adoption legal if it is satisfied that the payment to the birth parent came under section 5(c) of the Act.

Our fees are transparent, clear and fixed

  • With consent: $2,900
  • Without consent: $3,900

We are happy to discuss your circumstances – please contact us.

How long does adoption take?

The length of an adoption process depends on the circumstances of each case. When the adopted child is from overseas it will take longer, because the adoptive parents must satisfy that country’s requirements before also satisfying those of Singapore. The process of getting a Dependant’s Pass, and Home Study Report and the other procedures all take time.

If the adoption is contested, it will take even longer.

Who can adopt in Singapore?

Under section 4 of the Adoption of Children Act, the following criteria are set out:

  • Applicants must be aged 25 years or older
  • The age gap between child and applicant must be at least 21 years
  • If two people apply, they must both be aged 25 or above unless circumstances are exceptional
  • A girl may not be adopted by a single male unless exceptional circumstances apply
  • A married person must have the consent of their spouse if they wish to adopt alone
  • Applicants must be residents of Singapore, or have a pass that gives them resident status, as judged by the Family Court.

The court may grant an adoption in certain exceptional circumstances, for example if the child is a relative of the applicant, or the applicant is younger than 25 years old, or there is an age gap less than 21 years between child and applicant.

Children eligible for adoption are protected by law in Singapore, in order to safeguard their welfare and discourage scams. However, these protections can complicate matters.

Anyone considering adopting a child should speak to family lawyers with experience in adoption. Follow all procedures and prepare all necessary documents – this will ensure you don’t waste your time, or that of the court. Then your adoption will be as smooth and quick as possible.

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